Cannot wrap my head around why some women got to bars with the conscious intention of meeting the opposite sex. Do you really want to meet your future spouse in a bar Are you absolutely okay with telling people that bad lighting, loud music, chaos and booze hugely facilitated that immensely significant moment that you met the love of your life
Go to the club to dance and drink with your girlfriends, not to meet the father of your children! I know that a few great relationships have been borne out of the club scene, but that is the exception rather than the rule. You need a whole lot more than a shared affinity for alcohol to initiate a serious connection with another person.
How will you even have a conversation with someone in a loud bar on a Friday night Furthermore, do you really want to spend eternity with a man who saw your butt cheek and a portion of your nipple even before he knew your name
Unless you are just looking for a quick hook up for the night, stay away from the bar scene. Personally, even for a casual hook up, I’d prefer a clean, sober guy as opposed to an inebriated man who reeks of alcohol and cheap cigarettes. If you are looking for a quality, relationship-oriented man, your local watering hole is about the last place I would recommend.
It is a wonder why it is the go to place for every person. It is convenient, that’s for sure, and the added confidence boost from alcohol will come in handy, but as far as the quality of people in the bar goes, it is the last place you want to meet someone.
First of all, men in bars are not looking for their future missuses. They go there hoping to get casual sex with women; plain and simple. And guess what You, seated there alone at the counter, are a prime target. Do not misinterpret his enthusiasm in getting to know you with genuine interest of seeking a relationship with you. He only wants to get laid. He will not even remember your name in the morning.
The indisputable truth is that men do not value women they meet in bars and nightclubs. You might be a great woman with ravishing looks and an adorable personality to boot, but the moment you consciously try to land a man in a bar, all your great qualities go out the window. All that is left is a cheap and desperate woman that every man has easy access to.
In addition to that, meetings in a bar are absolutely bland. They are expected and hence lack excitement. It takes balls for someone to approach you in another setting for example the grocery store or a coffee shop. Any time you feel lonely and are tempted to head down to your local to find someone, remember what I’ve always said: the right man will find you when you are not looking.
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